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Todayas woman has greatly increased her expectations for potential mates. She is independent, and is finding greater opportunity in the work place and in her personal life. She sizes up partners with never before seen speed, assessing a manas strengths and weaknesses without delay.

She has accomplished everything she set out to do thus far, finished college, got a great job. She is happy, but decides it is time to consider a more serious relationship than she experienced while in school. She will not treat her opportunities in love any more lightly than she has her professional opportunities, she will make a conscious deliberate decision.

What will she desire of a partner? All of the traits she desires will be contingent on her personality, values, and past experience. She may desire a man similar to her; one who is as driven and dedicated in his professional life. She may also desire someone similar to her father, who will create a home with her that mirrors the one she grew up in. Or she could desire a total opposite, a challenge, someone who has a completely different world view with whom she can share different and new experiences.

All things considered, her options are as varied as the potential personalities she could have. Finding someone similar to her would mean a man that has worked hard academically and professionally to attain the same level of success. Someone who does not give up and who attains the goals he has set for himself. She would be attracted to a self-confident man who knows who he is.

A woman who is looking for a relationship similar to what she saw between her parents would be looking for those specific qualities. Maybe she found in her home, growing up, a man and woman who committed to one another wholeheartedly and put first the pledge of loyalty and faith. Or she may have experienced a relationship that was comfortable in ways such as living their lives separately, having completely different interests and only shared their days by telling each other how their day went. Unfortunately she may have found her home to be one of loneliness, void of affection and devotion. This woman could be quite comfortable living this way. She would be looking for a man who lacks the ability to be close and only shares her life by going through the motions of everyday life.

Some women will be searching for endless excitement and constant stimulation. A woman like that will want to be pushed into new thoughts and actions. She will probably like a man with many interests or hobbies, who runs from one idea to another, with little definitive impression of his personality. He would be an artistic type, unafraid of new things, and following his own lead.

We might not determine what type of man a woman wants because she may not have decided herself. There are as many types or women as there are men. She could desire a man who has all of these qualities. She might want someone who is diligent in his career, and yet often crazy in his free time, someone a little out of the ordinary.

Finally let us not forget that women just as men are also looking for the qualities they find attractive. She will be looking for someone she finds appealing not only to her mind but provokes desire physically. Yes, a woman is as different as shades of gray, an elusive and undeniably difficult creature. Understanding she is a mystery will go a long way to capturing the idea of what a woman really wants in a man.

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