You ended up losing him for whatever reason and now want nothing more than to have him back. He comforts you, makes you feel less alone, and generally likes putting up with all the little things that are you. So why did you let him go? You have to be honest with yourself so open up and get ready to dig into what it is that made him leave. You want to win him back so let’s accomplish that.

The first and usually most painful process is to understand why he left in the first place. Did you cheat on him? Did he cheat on you? Did the relationship get stale? Those are usually the largest reasons why two people end up separating. If those do not cover the reasons that he left then you may be lucky because winning him back in that regard should be an easier process.

Cheating is always a big issue. The problem here is even if you do win him back chances of him ever really getting over it will be slim to none. If the relationship simply got stale then you can have fun trying to win him back. Let loose a little and relax. Do all of those things that you always wanted to but thought he may not like or perhaps you weren’t sure he was into.

One problem that the relationship could have encountered is the issue of repetitive behavior. If this is the case then feel lucky as re-attracting him should be a lot easier than if there was another problem. This only involves reinventing yourself a bit and really exploring things that you hadn’t before for whatever reason.

You have to remember that you can do this and you really can win him back. Just prove to him that he is worth your fight and you are worth it as a couple.

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