Everybody who’s fallen in love knows how easy it is to get swept off their feet and stop thinking rationally. The saying, “Love is blind” is absolutely true. Everybody has had that feeling at one time or another. There’s nothing like it. You feel like your feet hardly touch the ground and you feel more energetic and excited than you have since you were a kid.

You’ll often notice that you have a silly smile on your face for no particular reason, and you are so caught up in your feelings for the other person that you would be oblivious if the world stopped spinning. However, how confident are you that the person is really free?

What phone number do you have to reach them? Is it a cell phone number or a work or home number? Have you ever seen where they live? When you are together or have plans, do they ever have to leave suddenly or cancel without notice?

If you stop and think about it for a few minutes, does it seem as if they are hiding something from you? This can be something that is pretty hard to take. You don’t want to think of the possibility of this person lying to you or being involved or married already. However, it happens every single day.

If you aren’t certain, you can pay attention to a few key things to know for sure. Pay careful attention to how the person acts. If they seem distracted or rushed, or if they are glued to their watch or often have to leave without warning, it may be a red flag. They could be deceiving their families and living a double life when they are with you.

Have you met his or her family? If they have offered to let you meet their parents, siblings or other family, chances are they are not already involved. If it has been quite a while and they still haven’t offered for you to meet their family, you might want to use a bit of caution.

Another investigative step to take is doing a reverse phone number search online. Just enter their number and it will give you their address, or vice versa. You could learn information about them you didn’t know before, and you can also find out other tidbits about them.

You can find their marriage or divorce certificates so that you know if they are married or not. You can find out if they have ever been charged with a crime and much more. This is one great way to ease your mind.

Sometimes even people who are not married are reluctant to have you meet their family or see where they live. It could be embarrassment or family issues or fear of commitment or something else entirely. At least, if the person is single, you know you are not hurting someone else simply by being in a relationship with this person. If you are not certain what the situation is, hopefully the information above will help you figure out what to do.

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