NLP and seduction have long been associated with each other. Nero Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a term used to describe the way in which our brains adhere to specific patterns of communication dependent on our personality type. Once we can begin to understand these patterns, triggers and Meta models, we can use them to our advantage whilst communicating with women.

Seduction is simply utilizing the most effective means to communicate our desires and intentions. The more effectively we communicate, the greater the possibility of a woman harmonizing and aligning herself with our intent.

This is why NLP and seduction can work wonders together. When a man is able to quickly analyze and decode a woman’s communications, he can easily build rapport and establish trust which in turn generates a connection that the seduction can be founded upon.

When people communicate they use a particular type of representational system. There are four types of systems and people primarily communicate through the lens of their personal hierarchy. The four systems are; visual, audio, kinesthetic (touch), and olfactory (smell and taste). By communicating with someone using their representational system a person is able to build rapport much faster.

Someone who is operating through the lens of a visual system will often communicate using terminology associated with vision. A typical example might be, “Try to picture what I’m saying here. As soon as you can envision what I mean you’ll probably change your view point. Then you’ll be able to see what I mean”

If you practice a touch, it can become very easy to converse with women whilst employing the same representational system as they are using when you communicate and flirt with them.

A woman who uses an audio representational system would often use statements such as, “I just like the sound of it. I knew it was a good idea as soon as I heard it so immediately I tuned in. It was like music to my ears”

A kinesthetic representational system sounds like, “I don’t know why he felt so bad because I only just touched on the subject ever so lightly. Obviously he hadn’t warmed up to the idea or it just didn’t feel right for him”

The use of the olfactory system as a representational system hierarchy is quiet rare as most people are visual, kinesthetic or audio. An olfactory example is, “It was a really bitter and cold day but the way he thought about bringing a jumper along for me was really tastefully done”

Being aware of women’s preferred representational systems will assist you to easily determine which system to adopt when you’re conversing and flirting with them. When using her preferred system, all your conversations with her will be more effective. The example below is a very subliminal communication breakdown that occurs often.

If a woman was to say, “That place looks great to me and I can just visualise myself being there someday. It just looks so picturesque, nearly like a painting”, she would be operating from the perspective of a ‘visual’. If the man who was an ‘audio’ responded with, “That idea sounds like sweet music to me. No city noise and just peace and quiet. Just relax and tune out”, he would be missing an opportunity to connect with her at a deeper level.

In the above example the man is in total agreement with the woman, yet to her, it’s as if the man just doesn’t see things her way. At a subconscious level the woman will not feel the same quality of connection that she would’ve if the man had simply responded with, “Indeed, that does look enticing. I could picture myself there too. You should look into it” This simple shift from an ‘audio’ to a ‘visual’ response would allow the woman to feel a deeper connection with the man.

Paying attention to a woman’s preferred representational system whilst interacting and flirting with her can assist you to build a stronger connection. Women will naturally feel more relaxed around you if you take advantage of this simple dynamic within your conversations.

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