You know, one of the things I absolutely hate to do is talk to women on the phone.

And I’m not alone in this. I know many other men who dread calling that number they got the other night in the club.

And it’s not because we don’t want to talk to the girl or get to know her. It’s because calling a girl on the phone is IMPORTANT.

It can seriously make or break you. A good call will guarantee a date. A bad will will ensure she never returns your messages again.

One of the biggest questions I get from guys is “What do I say when I’m talking to her on the phone?” Seriously, it’s as though their minds go blank and they can barely squeeze out the boring, awkward questions most guys fall back on when they’re at a loss for something to talk about.

The reason this happens is because so many guys just have little to no experience when talking to a girl. Because of this, they just are not confident about what to say.

I know this lack of confidence used to plague me when I got on the phone. I’d just sit there quietly listening to the girl talk! But these one-sided conversations do little for establishing the emotional connection necessary to secure a date.

So I’ve come up with a little trick to help me feel at ease talking to a girl on the phone. My advise to build confidence is to find an aide — a female friend who loves to talk!

(And let’s face it – most women are happy to talk your ear off when given the chance!)

What you do is call this friend before you call the other girl that you’re interested in. Talking to her will help you get in a “social mood” that will give you the edge you need.

This way, you can build your confidence on someone who doesn’t mean anything at all for the one that does.

If you don’t have a good female friend, you can try “warming up” by calling a male friend instead.

The most crucial thing here is that you START TALKING. The more you get your mouth moving, the easier it’ll be to start communicating with someone new.

And when it comes to making a first impression, that can make all the difference.

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