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Flirting has become incredibly important in today’s society. In the 19th century, marriages and relationships were forced or arranged by family and there was no need for flirting.

It wasn’t until after the 19th century that men and women started to step out of their community and traditions and it became their job to figure out their relationships. Around the 1950’s, men and women started needing to have and develop basic flirting skills.

For decades after this reform, the man and the woman took on new challenges. Women had to learn how to look sexy and weed out the uninteresting men. Men had to take control and approach the women they wanted. The fear of rejection became very real. Now it’s plain to see, that the men that know how to flirt become successful with women and the ones who don’t, take whatever they can get.

The first thing you need to know is that flirting is something learned and no one is born with a natural ability to flirt. Every man has had to learn how to do it and you can to.

These flirting tips have been used in my coaching seminars and proven to bring results. The best thing to do is try new things until you find what works. Enjoy these flirting tips:

Flirting Tips #1 - Have Physical Connection

You need to start communicating through physical communication. Flirting with physical communication is much more powerful than flirting through verbal communication. The first step, is to touch/grab her hand. I do this by seeing something interesting and then grabbing her hand to get her attention and point it out. Another easy way is if you are in a crowded scene and you move somewhere else, grab her hand and take her there instead of just having her follow. Palm reading also works. When I’m holding her hand, I will gently squeeze it and then toss it away as if she said something that could be offensive in some little way. She will feel that empty void on her hand after that and want to feel it again. You could also playfully slap her hand away if she is grabbing for something.

After you initiate the touch in a safe way, wait for her to touch you back. If she touches you back, then you are set to keep pursuing. If she doesn’t, you might want to consider she is not ready for that and you need to back off a little. Most importantly, if she is touching you, then she feels you are a safe man to be with. And finding safe men is one of the most important things to women. This is a touchy subject, and if applied at the right time, you are golden.

Flirting Tips #2 - Leave on a high - get her laughing

The ending is the most important part in a conversation - just like it’s the most important part in a speech. This is the final impression that sticks in her head.

For example, if you are planning on meeting up, don’t end off saying, “ya we will see you then, bye.” You want to end off with her laughing. So instead, say something like, “yeah just try not to embarrass me.” or “Don’t forget to paint your toe nails.” or “This is where you say you can’t wait to see me and hope you can keep your hands to yourself.”

Flirting Tips #3 - Qualify, Qualify, Qualify

Men have a huge problem with this. When we see a woman we want to pursue, we think selling ourselves is going to make her want us. NO, that doesn’t work. In fact it does the opposite and takes away the challenge and her desire to pursue you. Basically, we want what we can’t have. So make yourself hard to obtain by qualifying her.

Some ways to qualify is to ask her questions about something she is wearing or something she did or is doing, and then really listen to her response, “That’s a cool necklace, did you get it traveling?” Another great flirting tip when qualifying is to turn the tables by taking the role that women like to take, “So are you going to ask me out or what?” or “You didn’t just tell me you liked hiking to get me to like you, did you?” Just remember to always give your approval when interacting.

Flirting Tips #4 - Props

Props are awesome to use when you want women to come up to you and talk to you. They’re also perfect for a fallback option when you need something to talk about that you know works every time. Props give you something to always talk about and move forward with.

You could use a bandanna that hangs out of your pocket or a hat that stands out, a shirt that says something funny, etc. Then if a girl asks about your bandanna you can say, “I don’t think you can handle it.” Then you can go into a made up story or just say “it’s to match my shoes what do you think?”

Flirting Tips #5 - Flirt through texting | Flirting through text messages

Being successful with women is becoming easier and easier for men. Why? Because communication through texting, text messaging, and sms text messages has became such a huge part of everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men. It gives you time to get the right message (which also improves your real world flirting), you can interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances, and it builds your confidence. Most importantly, it cuts out all the potentially negative attraction triggers women usually see, such as clothes, smile, breath, hair, etc. All you’re left with are words and timing.

Once you get the right words at the right time, you can expect a ton of success with women. And since most men fail at flirting in texting, you will stand above the rest, and you’ll see a lot of women responding desirably to you.

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