Plenty of lonely hearts are looking for love Online. The problem is, many are frustrated and disenchanted with the process. People are either meeting the wrong people or worse, they are not meeting anyone at all. Some are turning to specialized Online Dating Coaches, like Chaszey Sandhriel.

“The number one reason why people are not getting results or at least the results they expected, is because they are not putting their most authentic Self into their profile. They withhold themselves or worse, lie, and then they wonder why their contradictory profile is giving them wishy-washy results.” Chaszey says. “Every successful results-driven online profile is packed with honesty, strength and the clear picture of who you are and who you truly want as a life partner.”

A successful profile can be put together remembering these three important steps:

1. A successful screen name When we first create our screen names we forget that the screen name we choose communicates poems, or not, to people who will be looking at our profile. Screen names like “TiredofmyJob,” “WhoseYourDaddy,” “WorshipMe” will not get you the results that you’re looking for, no matter how great your personal profile reads. Pick a screen name where people cannot read between the lines trying to figure out what you’re trying to communicate with it.

2. The right photos “It never amazes to see the type of pictures people put on the Internet. Little do they realize that these pictures are leaving a first impression,” says Chaszey. By all means do not put pictures up in which you wear glasses and a hat displaying your favorite football team, all while having two dead fish hanging from your arms. Reserve these proud photos for your poker night out with your buddies. Pictures that work show your eyes and show your face clearly; and you show a variety of photos ranging from headshots to full body shots (no matter what you look like).

3. Your profile Be concise, authentic and open when describing yourself. I have talked to many men who told me that once they went out on a first date, they discovered that the profile of the woman they went out with was actually written by a girlfriend, who meant well, I’m sure. However, it left these men wondering who they really were on a date with and they lost faith and trust. I cannot stress how important it is for you to get clear about who you are and for you to accurately state who you are and what makes you tick in your profile. You are not trying out for an essay contest, you are communicating to the world that you are ready to find your true love and you are calling him or her to you with your profile. This is the time to be downright honest with yourself and the world so that you have a chance to attract a person who knows who you are from the beginning.

4. Clearly describe the partner you want to attract Everyone wants a “good woman” or a “great guy” but this doesn’t mean that your profile needs to sound like you’re looking for a Stepford wife or Prince Charming. Too many adjectives can result in people tuning out about what you’re really looking for. Perhaps you may want to try to describe how this person makes you feel or what you as a couple would do together. Write this part as if you’re talking to her or him directly.

The Nation’s number 1 Online Dating Coach, Chaszey Sandhriel, is available on a case-by-case basis to help clients produce amazing results with their online dating experience. You can visit her at www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call her at 415.419.7952.

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