Why does it seem like every time you are nice to a woman, gicing her flowers, buying her dinner, rubbing her feet, even walking her dog - you end up getting the line, “I only want to be friends”? Why is it that nice guys always finish last? Well - here is some news. There are rules in attraction and dating. You could - just maybe - be breaking some of them if your results are less than stellar.

Educating yourself about attraction is essential - know the rules and you rule the game. Its that simple. You can tuen each of these rules to your advantage, learn from mistakes others have made, and bring home the girl.

The first rule is that attraction is not a choice. The phrase has almost become cliche in the dating PUA world, but the thing is, its TRUE. Attraction is not a choice. Do the right things - and she cannot HELP but be attracted to you.

The second law is also very simple. The hot people, the attractive people, get the choice of who they want to date. The hot girl gets her pick of guys, and has guys throwing themselves at her day and night. And it gets pretty old, pretty fast. So if you want to get her attention, you have got to stand out from the pack.

The third law is the one that takes the cake. Attraction does not make sense. Ok - so every girl you have ever been friends with dreams of Prince Charming who will sweep her off her feet, shower her in jewels and flowers, and treat her like a Princess. BUT - who is she dating? The jock with no neck that treats her like she is covered in pigskin. Why? because she is attracted to him, and attraction is not a choice!

Law four - STATUS is very important when it comes to ATTRACTION. Beautiful girls are rarely attracted to men perceived to be of a lower status than they are. Being the Alpha Male is a must if you are looking to attract women.

So what it boils down to is that women want a real MAN. She wants a man that makes her feel that attraction, whether or not she wants to. If that attraction is not there, she is going to pass by you like and F14. Women don’t want the “Nice Guy” - they want the man that makes them feel attraction.

You need to stop any of the attraction killing behaviors today. NOW. Stops being the nice guy. Now, I am not saying you need to treat women badly - at all. What I am saying is be a little bit of a bad boy. Use Cocky Comedy on her, bust on her, tell her she is a dork or she is having a bad hair day. Don’t give her compliments, gifts, flowers or anything that resembles your lips puckering up to her butt. Keep her guessing.

Two - tell an attractive women no at least once every single day. Doesn’t have to be big - but when some hot woman asks you to hand her the newspaper at the coffee shop - tell her no. Of course, you can wait a few minutes while she grabs her jaw off the floor and then give her what she was asking for, but just bust her bubble if you can.

Last, but certainly not least - respect YOURSELF. Do not change who you are for anyone, least of all for a pretty face. Don’t let her take control or push your buttons for any reason. Respect yourself and people will respect you as well.

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