Meeting women online should be one of the easiest ways to get a great date. The fact is, though, most men just slap up a ho-hum profile and hope for a response. Or – even worse – they whip out a response to HER personal ad that is about a mile beyond boring.

So just for a minute – imagine you are some super sexy babe who has put her profile up on the internet in hopes of finding just ONE guy who is interesting, fun and CHALLENGING. Now imagine you are this hottie – opening her email to find forty responses to your profile.

She opens the first one up – and gags. “Hi there pretty lady,” he says, “I am a DWM age 35 looking for a young, SWF to possibly form a LTR with. I am stable, funny, charming and romantic.” Next she reads, “Wow you are HOT! I have a degree in ‘pleasure-ocity’ and would loooove to educate you, baby!” DELETE!!

See my point here? You have GOT to do something ORIGINAL in order to get her attention. You need to come across in your email as someone DIFFERENT than the other 900 losers that emailed her and then, you have to get her OFFLINE and on the phone as quickly as possible.

One of the great ways to really get her attention online is to use the Cocky Comedy fundamentals to get her goat. Ask her what the hell was going on with her hair in that photo, or if that was 10 years ago and she has grown warts since then, or anything that would make her sputter, defend herself or generally smack you if you were beside her.

Now, before you go out and start signing up for twenty different email accounts and 30 different online dating sites, take in some sage advice. (And by the way – to keep yourself from looking like a troller – GET the different email accounts. If you are on more than one site – chances are – so is she!)

When you are responding to her profile – please be sure to respond directly to something she said in her post. Do not send out the same letter to 30 women. READ her profile and bust on something she said in it.

After that, you need to be sure to keep up to date on the site. If you want a woman, you need to be in the first few to respond to her. Check it every day or set up notifications for new profiles. You will have much better chances if you can get to her first before she gives up and accepts a dufus.

Keep in mind, though, she is going to be a little freaked out about meeting you. Take her somewhere safe the first time you meet – somewhere very public and in the daytime. Meet for a latte or at the zoo, or anywhere non-sexual and safe for her.

So remember – online dating services are a GREAT place to meet women, and meeting women online can be a blast if you know how to do it right. So fire up your fingers and get to work. Remember – you CAN get the girl!

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