With February fast approaching, there’s one thing on every guy’s mind: “Oh my God, what do I get my girlfriend/wife/date?” There’s going to be a pretty mad rush to the shops to get a nice present for the day. It’s a day when every guy will tiptoe on eggshells just to find the perfect gift to show their affection and make that special lady feel special.

Relax! It’s a good thing that the best Valentine’s gifts are usually the staples, and are also the ones that you can find anywhere. These are chocolates, jewelry, and flowers.

A single red rose or an entire bouquet of blooms never fail to drive the message home. This is the safest choice, whether your relationship is just starting out, or you have celebrated multitudes of Valentine’s Days together. Do remember, though, that unless you plan to say “I love you”, you should steer clear of giving three roses.

Chocolate is always appreciated. With rare exceptions, and mostly for dietary constraints, all women love chocolate. The great thing about choosing to gift this confection is that chocolate accommodates all budget limitations. You can buy a relatively more affordable sampler from a mainstream brand, or you can splurge and go for the big guns: pure Belgian truffles!

Jewelry is a bit trickier; it needs appreciation of your level of commitment and your girl’s taste. If the two of you are already serious and steady, a ring may be appropriate and can be an affirmation of your bond. Otherwise, bracelets, earrings and necklaces should do the trick. The heart style is in fashion and many variations of this motif are just intricate. Note though that the gifting of really expensive jewelry can have negative connotations and it’s best to appraise the context of your relationship before you make any extravagant purchases.

Apart from the obvious and more traditional gifts, there are more options you could choose from. If she collects a certain item, add something to her collection. If she loves books, get something that she might want to read. You can also get her CDs, DVDs, perfume, or even pajamas. It’s just a matter of knowing what fits her personality best.

If you’re feeling your muse stirring inside you, you can always hunker down and create something special for your girl. You can put to talents to good use. Write a poem, or a song. Make a montage, if you’re good at making videos, or cook a gourmet dinner, if you’re a whiz in the kitchen. The effort won’t go unnoticed.

And remember, Valentine gifts can be experiential too! An excellent gift can be something you would both appreciate; something that brings you closer as a couple. If you’re on a budget, champagne can stimulate that bonding moment. If you can splurge a little, maybe a candlelit dinner in a fancy restaurant or tickets to a concert is the way to go. If you can splurge a lot, how about a getaway to a secluded place?

At the end of the day, as long as something is sincere, thought-out and from the heart, it’ll leave a lasting impression. The spirit of Valentines Day is being with someone you’d like to spend the day with. Keep that in mind and everything else will come easy.

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