You’ve broken up with your ex and since that day you have experienced little but regret. If only she felt the same regret as you, then winning her back would be much easier. Flat out asking her may be too risky, so it’s time for a more subtle plan.

First, you should study the conditions that led to the break up. Were these circumstances extreme? If the troubles were over little things that ultimately blew up into something big, she’ll likely want to come back after some cooling off. It’s not so clear-cut if the break up were more hostile in nature and came about over more important issues. If this is your situation, then you’ll have to look for signals from your ex that she wants to come back.

1.) Is your ex having a difficult time adjusting? If so, then it implies that you are still an important part of her life. It means that she too is suffering from this loss.

2.) Does she prefer to stay friends with you? This signals a desire to keep a connection with you. Remaining friends with her is very advantageous. It keeps a channel of communication open. Sooner or later, you’ll be able to use this to get her back.

3.) Is she apologetic about the things she said during the break up? This indicates a desire to make things right.

4.) Does she tend to send compliments your way when you converse? Any compliment no matter how indirect is important.

5.) Is your ex dating someone else? If it’s been a while since the break up and she’s not involved with someone else, then maybe she’s finding it very hard to replace what the two of you had together. Perhaps no one else can take your place.

6.) Has she remained in contact with you? This includes answering your phone calls as well as initiating calls and conversations herself.

7.) What do her body language and eyes tell you? If she’s interested in you, her eyes will widen and her eyebrows will raise when she first sees you. Another hopeful sign are dilated pupils. Be alert to long, protracted eye contact when you talk as well as her making little adjustments to her hair.

8.) Mirroring is still another sign of interest. When she unconsciously mimics your body language or your mood, she is mirroring. Rhythm, loudness and the tone of your speech may also be mirrored.

9.) Does she say the word “you” a good deal in her sentences? If so, she’s addressing you in the second person which is a more intimate way to communicate.

10) Is she still doing those small favors for you like she did in the past? If she wanted you out of her life, she just wouldn’t bother.

If some of these signs apply to your case, your prospects of getting her back look good.

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