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People often vividly recall the first time they met their partner. Did you immediately connect with special chemistry? Have you both settled in a dull routine by default?

You miss that excitement of falling in love, but yet you don’t want to leave your partner. The love you both built together is still there, but needs some refreshing new ideas to make it more stimulating. Look at your partner in a different light, like you just met them for the first time.

* Show how attracted you are to him or her, relax and flirt, joke and laugh together. Show complete attention when you are together, yet be unavailable at times because you are busy but you will definitely set another date to see each other again.

* Your partner or ex doesn’t need to be notified how your spend every minute of the day. You will let them know that you want to see them again, but you have your job, activities, social life with your friends, and chores you must get done. It’s important that you let your ex know that you need to see them again and set up a date.

* Do your best to look terrific. Don’t go for any radical physical appearance changes, just enhance yourself a little. Get some great new clothes, change your hairstyle a little, or lose some weight if it makes you look better. People in your life will notice, and you will feel better about yourself.

* When you do meet your ex or partner, learn to pay attention to him or her. Be genuinely involved in what’s going on in his or her life. Bring up old times where you had great shared memories together.

Remember to give your relationship some time to build back to the way it was when you first connected. It will take time–but let them see you from occasionally around other people but make sure you let your ex know that you want to be together. Your partner will look forward to your next meetings together.

Don’t expect an instant reconciliation—if it’s meant to happen then it will in time. The best thing you can do is not to rush or force things or your ex will begin to think you are desperate. Be cool about it, but be loving.

Take your time, and hope for the best. You can fall in love again with your partner if you want to work at it. If the relationship is worth it to the both of you, it can work with some dedication.

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