From what I wrote in part one of this article, it’s probably pretty clear how most guys think the wrong way about dating. Let’s look at the right way!

So what does it mean to date a woman?

Simple: Dating is the process of building comfort, strengthening emotional connections, and building attraction!

See, it doesn’t matter where you go, or how much money you spend. All that matters is how you’re able to connect to the woman you’re with and what you can make her feel about you.

That is why so many guys can take a girl on a cheap date and sweep her off her feet, and other guys can drop thousands of dollars on really creative dates and get NOWHERE.

Your entire focus while dating a girl should be “how can I become more emotionally connected to this girl?”

Talk about your shared interests. Talk about your passions. Try and figure out what her hopes and dreams are.

Stay away from boring questions like “where do you work?” Instead, rephrase these questions to be fun and interesting, for instance, ask her: “If you could do anything you wanted, and weren’t bound by the laws of space and time, what would you do?”

Most importantly: HAVE FUN!

Crack jokes - even if they’re not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.

But most importantly, don’t shy away from the idea of love making!

Too many guys are afraid to even broach the topic of getting amorous while on a date. But you have to build the tension to intensify the attraction.

So have some fun with it - crack jokes about it, flirt with her, and don’t be afraid to bring out the bad boy side of yourself. She’ll like this, believe it or not, and without it, you will probably not make it to the next level with her.

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