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How to Correctly Use Humor to Get Women
Posted at Nov 14th, 2009 in Relationship Advice
It’s definitely understandable why some guys would jump to conclusions and decide that humor is the most powerful tool in a man’s arsenal when it comes to attracting women. Don’t be gulled; this is just a half truth. Let me reveal how it really works.
Humor alone is not enough to make women attracted to you. What you need to truly attract more women is a combination of humor and seduction — commonly referred to as “flirting.”
What makes flirting so important?
If you watch what really goes on in male-female interactions, you’ll come to realize that flirting is absolutely vital to make a women consider you as an option. Before I stray too far from the subject, let me go into a little bit more detail about why simply cracking jokes won’t make her swoon.
You’ve probably had a lot of women place you in the “just friends” category — and chances are, a lot of these were women that you actually wanted to get with. Making women laugh without knowing how to make the conversation flirtatious is a sure fire way to get labeled as a “friend” quickly. To escape the friends zone, you must first master the art of flirting.
On the other hand, trying to flirt with a woman in a non funny way is equally self-defeating. If you come on too strong to a woman without mixing humor into your approach, then you risk appearing threatening to her.
This is where it gets hard for most men. You have to learn to make it obvious that you are interested in a woman in a romantic or physical way without scaring her off. It definitely takes practice, but it is something that can be mastered by any man. And you know what? Learning how to do this is a lot of fun!
Most men fully realize that humor plays an important role in having positive interactions with women. However, what most men miss is that humor must be delivered a certain way. Most guys never dream in a million years that there is a right and a wrong way to use humor.
Buffoons are not attractive to good looking girls.
Now you know the truth. It is not humor that attracts women. Humor is a major factor, but it is not the last word. Flirtatious humor is the tried and true way to appeal to and charm more women.
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