Knowing how to read people is a huge help when you’re just starting to date after a breakup. There might have been times in the past when you’ve misjudged somebody’s actions - thought he was into you even though he wasn’t. Knowing what to look for and how to interpret what you find will help you know whether he’s into you.

The first thing you’ll need to do is look for these tell-tale signs that you have his interest. If you notice one or more of these signs, chances are that he is into you and a second date could definitely be in your future.

First sign he’s into you is if he invites discussion. Not a heated debate, but a nice exchange of ideas and experiences. If he’s only answering whatever question you throw, and he’s not volunteering anything about him, then the signal he’s sending is he’s not interested in you. However, if he asks you to talk more about yourself, and tells you about himself as well, then he probably wants to take you out again.

Second sign you can look for is whether he leans closer to you when you talk. This hints that he’s interested in what you’re saying. This is even better than the first sign. It’s one thing for him to use words to tell you he might be interested, it’s another thing to show it. Actions speak louder than words, and if you’re looking for the perfect action that signals his intentions, this is the one.

Is he looking you in the eye? Guys who aren’t interested will have their eye on everyone in the room but you. Don’t get nervous if all the other signs are present but he isn’t looking you in the eye. That could be a sign of nerves. However, when he is looking you in the eye it’s a sure sign that there is definite interest. This dating after a breakup thing is tough isn’t it?

Now here are two signs you don’t want to see him give out during a first date - signs he’s not into you and would rather go home.

1. There’s nonstop ex talk. If a guy can’t stop talking about his ex during a date with a different girl, then he’s either still hung up about the ex, or he’s extremely rude. Either way, you don’t want a second date from this kind of guy. He’s not over the girl and will surely view you as his rebound. Don’t take it personally; he’s just not ready for anything yet.

2) He’s constantly checking his watch. This is a sure sign that he’s not having fun and waiting for the appropriate time to call it a night. If this isn’t the case, then maybe he’s just too busy to work in dating and you’re better off without him anyway.

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