First thing you must address, if you want your ex to return and stay is why they left in the first place. You have to explore your own behavior and determine why what was good before isn’t any longer.

Were you there for your partner emotionally? Did you give your mate compliments daily. Did you make your mate feel good about themselves in your presence? Were you so self absorbed in your relationship that you failed to be that person that said you look good today? Did you tell them small things like you have a nice smile? You like it when someone makes you feel good. Doesn’t your mate deserve that same feeling? If you don’t make them feel emotionally good in your presence someone else will.

Secondly, people like to feel like they matter in your life. They like to feel like they are needed. We like to feel like if we were gone there are things about us that would be missed. We all can be replaced,but we don’t want to think that we can be replaced. Do you ever miss the player who never leaves the bench? Don’t run a relationship sitting on the bench. Just because you got the uniform and team name doesn’t make you the star player.

Thirdly, people are attracted to people who make them feel special. When you first met your mate you catered to your potential mate in little ways. You did this to win them into your world. Guess what, you can’t stop. Unless you want to be replaced. It is the small things that count the most. If you want your ex back and want your ex to stay you must pay close attention to the little things that gives them pleasure, comfort or satisfaction.

Remember when you were a child. Do you remember that uncle or aunt that gave you those little gifts. It could be something very small, but they always had something. How would you feel if they showed up empty handed. Disappointed, I’m sure. Do you show up making your mate feel disappointed about what you have to offer? Or are you still handing handfuls of disappointments?

After you determine what you did wrong, on your part you need a plan to get your ex back. You need to know what to say or not say so that you can get in there and repair some damage. Suppose they won’t even answer your phone call. If you want to get your ex back, it is possible, you may need some guidance. You should watch this video, to help you plan the steps needed to get your ex to return.

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