Want to get your ex back in hours, instead of sitting around waiting for weeks or months hoping they’ll miss you? If you do, you need a specific direct plan of action to get you there.

The first thing to do is to understand why the relationship broke down. There are three general reasons. First is that your mate just isnt that into you anymore. This happens often. After a while, one mate loses passion or desire for the other. This could be due to chronic fighting or simply the relationship drift that occurs in most relationships due to work and family burdens and stresses.

The other two reasons for why relationships break up is because you wronged your mate in some way, or they wronged you. So you either cheated on them or ignored them or hurt them in some deep way. Or they cheated on you or were too jealous or controlling or whatever. The first step to getting your ex back is to understand why it broke up.

Until you can understand why it ended, you really have no chance to repair things, do you? So dont skip this first step. Make sure you understand as objectively as possible why it broke.

Then you can formulate a plan to get your ex back in hours. This plan should involve re-engaging your mate directly with a short phone call.

In this call you need to effectively address why the relationship broke down and what you can do to repair the damage. If you wronged them or they wronged you this will involve a six or seven step apology process, where you both own up to what happened. This apology process will work either if you owe an apology or they owe you one for wronging you. The approach will be different, but it involves listening to your mate almost as much as you talking.

Negative feelings built up leading to the break up. So to get your ex back in hours instead of months you need to help your ex to release and vent these negative feelings. Once the bad emotions have begun to be released, then and only then do you have real chance of making up with your ex.

If you broke up because your partner just isnt that into you anymore, this is harder to repair but it can be done. This will involve a different kind of 10 minute conversation where you need to find out specifically what they dont like about you. Then you will call them back a few days later and follow a strategy to convince them that you will change. There is a lot more detailed specifics available on how to get your ex back in hours rather than months, but these steps can get you started.

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