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I am NOT a very fashionable type of guy.

I usually let my girlfriend pick out clothes for me - not for MY benefit..

… so that if we go out in public together she will not feel embarrassed!

If I were the one to pick my clothes, I’d rather pick the sweats and t-shirt, coupled with my old worn sneakers. I mean, I think fashion is silly.

I definitely appreciate the artistic aspect of fashion style and design. It is like a work of art when I look at a very well dressed woman, I dig that.

But when a guy is “too stylish” I kinda lose respect for him.

Don’t get it wrong, a guy should present himself like he means to be taken seriously. A good quality, nice and well-fitting clothes are a fundamental to masculine expression.

But some men take it too far.

Case in point, the obsession with “peacocking” in the pickup Community for the past several years.

It makes me cringe when I hear this term.

YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.

If you’re not familiar with “peacocking,” let me explain.

A while ago, there was an emergence of routine-based “game,” relying heavily on superficial techniques, status games, and over-analysis of social interactions.

I didn’t see the value of any of this, and have always gone in the opposite direction.

Reason for this is that I saw how pretending to be someone other than yourself, and saying jokes and routines that other guys came up with JUST FELT WRONG.

The PRIMARY FOCUS of all these strategy and game-playing was to visibly get approval from women, but making them feel insecure and they’d think you were cooler than them.

Think about the layers of bullshit in that approach to dating. Not only are you faking your personality because you

a) look for approval (as if girls were an authority on what makes man a man)

b) keep the fact that you’re seeking approval

c) play games that will make women feel insecure so that they will try to seek your approval

YUCK

“Peacock,” is one of the main techniques of this approach as to dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so that women would “notice” you and want to talk to you.

Wearing a nice watch, or a necklace isn’t a bad thing because some have personal meaning.

But I never do that just to make women like me.

I’m sure a lot of you guys have seen the advocates of this approach on TV shows, straining to make sense out of this hare-brained “technique.”

I’ve personally encountered students of other pickup schools, and felt sad because these poor guys were not only nervous, clumsy, misdirected…they looked RETARDED.

So I want to make a direct proof when it comes to fashion and approaching women.

There are only few things that you need to focus when it comes to your appearance.

After you have handled this stuff, you should place it out of your mind, and that you shouldn’t wait for women to notice you before TAKING AN ACTION.

Before moving on, I have something to expose.

(To be Continued in Part 2)

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