Young men are taught that their urges is crude and silly, and that it is just a favor that women ALLOWS them to mate with them.

“Doofus dad” syndrome is another societal factor that I’m going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.

This brings to an opinion that women are “better,” and that their time is more important than yours.

If your time is not so valuable, then you will feel obligated to give her LOTS OF IT.

But here’s the thing – you won’t be present for most of that time, if you are giving a woman too much time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.

I just realize this after analyzing lots of dates I went on women.

After that I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but with my FULL ATTENTION.

Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.

Now my girlfriends can’t get enough of me – in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”

You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me, and women can’t be pulled to what they already have.

I don’t recommend playing games with girls and you pretend to be busy or whatever. In reality, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.

No games, just be real with her – don’t spend more time that you want.

Enjoy whatever free time you have with women but still with focus on your personal goals. Be the man on the go.

Now this requires that you are able to meet a lot of women in a short amount of time, which I’ll have to cover in another newsletter.

It’s not good to see that men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” girls, and then they are left out ALONE.

Remember that women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.

It doesn’t mean that you can “keep” the women if you invest all your time with her.

One more thing here – if you start being honest with the amount of time you are willing give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.

It either she will make you feel guilty or you will feel it on your own. That’s ok, it just means that you have a weak focus.

If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.

If you are in the habit of adopting the values that others try to impose onto you, you will probably experience some tension, guilt, discomfort, even loneliness at first.

That’s why I set out on a journey to discover and develop the Attraction Code. It’s all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ emerge from within.

And no, we don’t intend to impose our goals to you. I think you are capable enough to handle it to yourself, given the proper guidance.

Vin

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