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We have all seen the flirty woman blow a kiss at a man to spark his attraction. However - there is a very overlooked secret to body language that sparks attraction and sends out the right kind of message in a much more subtle, but powerful way. The method? Simply - eye contact.

Holding someone’s gaze for longer than they hold yours sends out a VERY powerful signal of attraction and intent. It’s not a staring contest - it’s a fine-tuned way of giving him a great signal he may not even CONCIOUSLY recognize.

Try it. The next man who you see that you find attractive, hold his gaze when he looks at you. Imagine yourself blowing a kiss with your eyes. Let him drop the eye contact first. This can be REALLY uncomfortable, even counterintuitive, for some women. But if you want to use your eyes to spark attraction, you need to do it, and do it well.

If you find it difficult - you are not alone! Most women, including myself, have found it difficult to do at first. The thing is - different is GOOD in attraction. If something catches your curiosity - it is more than likely that the thing is DIFFERENT than the things around it. See where I am going with this?

You need to practice though. So next time you are at Wal Mart, practice! Start looking every single man you see right in the eye, until he looks away. Do it until it becomes second nature to you and you are actually comfortable with it.

Keep in mind - you are not trying to “stare him down” or overpower him. So if you are having a conversation, DO look away occasionally. Just show him that you are comfortable, he has your attention, and you are a strong and intelligent woman.

After the conversation has continued for a while and you have made some good headway with him, be sure to let something else catch your attention briefly. If you can, chat briefly with another person or “see” someone you know and wave. Let your attention be diverted from him. Then - when you come back to him, it is more exciting to him seeing that he may have to work to hold your attention.

On your first date with this guy - change things up a little for him. Act like “one of the guys”, a little more friendly with him and less flirty - keep him on his toes and maybe a little unsure of your attraction level to him. This will make him work harder to try to keep you around, and will also bolster the attraction between you.

This type of play will keep him attracted and will keep him thinking about what he can do to keep your attention focused on him. It will also keep him guessing - which makes life a lot more interesting for the man, and ultimately, for you!

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