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by Maxwell Durden

A lot of times when a relationship has ended, guys are the first ones to “get back in the game” and start dating other women. However, not every girl is so easily replaceable. If you are wanting to get your ex girlfriend back, I’m willing to be that she is one of those irreplaceable ones.

First of all, if you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, you’re going to have to “think outside the box” a bit. I give lots of dating advice for men, and one of the most common mistakes that I see men make when dealing with their girlfriends is that they try and treat them like logical creatures.

When dealing with women in general, and especially in a highly emotional situation such as a break up, you have to realize that logic and reason are not your most powerful methods for getting women to do what you want them to do. Women are purely motivated by what they are feeling at the time, so it’s absolutely impossible to “convince” your girlfriend to do anything.

What you’ve got to understand is that women tend to run on emotions, and they make most of their decisions this way. So when your girlfriend tells you she no longer wants to be in a relationship with you, what’s she’s basically saying is that she’s lost the emotions she once had that made her want to be with you. Before you can move past this with her though you first have to accept how she feels.

The most crucial part in getting your ex girlfriend back is taking ownership of the situation. Your girlfriend no longer feels for you the way she did in the past, and I know that hurts. I’m sure the thought of her moving on with some guy on Saturday night hurts even worse, but you can get her back if you get in control now.

You see, when you take responsibility for your situation, you are acting like a man. And acting like a man is one of the most powerful things you can do with a woman when most of your peers have forgotten how to. Take responsibility, and realize that you cannot just “convince” your girlfriend to change her mind about you. Instead, the way to get her back is by changing the way that she feels. You need to make her feel attraction for you once more.

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