I wrote in a previous article about how verbal flirting is only a tiny percentage of the whole flirt.

And I meant it. Unfortunately, a good portion of men don’t understand this, and they blow it before they even speak to a woman.

So we need to make sure that doesn’t happen to you. Let’s take a look at some parts of the equation of flirting here.

Generally, flirting starts with eye contact.

So say you look at a girl, and she looks directly back at you. Wow, that can be uncomfortable huh? That depends entirely on you and how you feel about yourself.

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(continued from part one of this article)

Now, anyone who says “I can’t stand conflict!” or “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all!” should do us all a favor and move to the planet “Ideal” where life is wonderful, we all have transparent heads, and there is no war.

I’m sure on that planet, they get all the moral support they need from anyone.

But that’s the crux of the issue right there. All you “Nice Guys” have a losing mentality about your need for support. Your methodology is: “I am so loving and giving and nice, I expect you to treat me the exact same way as I treat you!”

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There are plenty of tips online on how to get your ex girlfriend back, but most of them expect her to at least be willing to pick up the telephone when you ring her up. What are you supposed to do if she won’t even talk to you? Here are a few ideas:

Let her acknowledge you are available

You’ve plausibly discovered the advice that if you require to know how to get your ex girlfriend back, the most immediate way is to make her envious by making her believe you’re going out with other girls. Well, the trouble is this can easily backlash on you.

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This is continued from the first part of this article. Please read that first!

Step #3. Take a break from video games

If you are a geek, you are almost sure to play video games. It goes hand in hand with being a geek. And seeing as how there are some awesome video games out there, it’s okay.

However, some geeks use video games as a way to replace a non-existent social life. They get their “human contact” fix by chatting with their guild mates in Everquest, or those lame n00bs on Xbox Live, and don’t feel the need to go out and meet real people.

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It’s an all too familiar situation

A guy is at a bar, checking out the people to find an attractive lady. Drink in hand, he builds his courage up, hoping it will make things easier.

He sees more than a few girls he’d like to meet. Maybe even a few of them notice him and send him a few “subtle signals” to let him know it’s okay to approach.

Unfortunately, most guys may not pick up on those “subtle signs” and wind up standing there, drink in hand, wondering when the courage to approach will overtake them.

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Part 2 in a 2 part series.

4. Jerks are direct about their intentions

When a Jerk approaches a woman, he makes no bones about what he’s after. He flirts with her, lusts after her, and tries to convince her to come home and have sex with him.

The girl knows RIGHT AWAY what the Jerk wants, and after he’s made it clear, it is up to her to decide if she wants to give it to him.

If not, the Jerk moves on and finds another girl. If so, then the Jerk takes her by the hand and drags her off.

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If you want to do well with women, you’ll need to be comfortable with yourself. By doing so, you can be more aggressive, bold, and confident around women, and set yourself apart from most guys. And it’s a lot more fun.

There is a phenomenon I find quite strange, however, that keeps them from just walking up and talking to a woman. It’s strange to me, because I personally don’t deal with it. But several men do.

They feel like they’re being judged.

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