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When you get a woman’s number, it feels like an accomplishment itself. If you’ve got the number, you’ve got the girl, right? Wrong. Most women delete messages from men daily without any plan to ever call them back. This is often because of the type of voicemail message left. With the amount of men a woman meets weekly, your voicemail message may be your only chance to stand out.

If you avoid these four giant pitfalls in your voicemail practice, you’ll be a lot better off. Here they are…

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The first time I tried online dating I was terrified. The second time I was frustrated. The third time was better because I got the attention I wanted. This happened because I took the time to experiment with my profile, ask my friends what they were doing and read-up on the topic.

Don’t make the same mistakes I did, do yourself a favor.

Mistake Number One: The Competition Ignored Three-fourths of the women in my zip code have a picture of themselves at a baseball game. If I hadn’t gone weeks without looking at other women’s profiles, it would’ve occurred to me sooner that I should one-up my competition and post a picture of myself playing the game. It’s important to compare yourself to the competition.

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These are some questions I hear most often when calls come in to my office: “Do we need to see a therapist? I think we have sexual problems? How do we find the right type of therapist? A sex therapist, what the heck is a sex therapist?” It never fails to amaze me, that the mere mention of sex and human sexuality continue to titillate and cause a state of unrest for most, when thrown into the mix of everyday conversation.

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Most men have fears - some don’t like spiders, others don’t like heights, and still others fear going bald or getting a pot belly. These are not things that men naturally lay out on the table and discuss. One very common fear among men, though, that should be discussed, is the fear of approaching women.

The first thing a man needs to do to overcome approach anxiety is to practice approaching women constantly. Practicing will help you overcome what you fear, make you more comfortable, confident and more successful with women and dating. Women can sense confidence in a man - it’s like a cologne to them. Having more will certainly help you get her number.

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No matter what your age, height, weight or physical appearance, there are thousands of women out there eager to meet you and eager for your companywhether short-term or long-term relationships are what you want. If you have found yourself suddenly “on-the-market” again after a relationship has dissolved or are just too busy with your work to spend a lot of time looking for a lady to keep you company, online dating can open the door to the dating scene for you.

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When looking for an online dating service, you first need to understand what it is you want. Are you looking for Mr. Right Now, Ms. Right, or simply a friend? And how will you know you’ve found what you’re looking for? This is something you should know before beginning your search.

Next, figure out who you are. Not only because you’re going to have to sell yourself, but because you’re going to have to convince someone else to sell themselves to you. And that’s before you meet in person. But you also want to know where to start searching.

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Life isn’t fair. Men get all the breaks. You’ve devoted all of your 20’s to getting your career off the ground. Not that you haven’t been datingyou have, but not seriously. Now here you are30 something and there is no long term relationship in sight.

You can actually hear your biological clock ticking. You have a precious few years to find a man to fall in love with, make him fall in love with you, get married, and have a baby or its lights out. You already know all of the men in your social circle. Not that they aren’t nice guyssome of thembut none of them are your soul mate. What’s a girl to do?

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